The Costs of Infertility

The Costs of Infertility

As I have shared more openly about our infertility journey and the treatments that we’ve tried over the years, I’ve become a bit desensitized to how often people ask me what everything costs or how we’re paying for all of this.

In our situation, these treatments have been something we’ve paid for almost entirely out of pocket. While infertility testing is covered under our health insurance, the actual infertility treatments are not covered (I’ll let you guess which costs more). Because we had such generous help from our families once we began the IVF process in 2020, and we were able to creatively stretch our budget when we needed to, we also chose not to finance our treatments. But while there are very real financial costs to infertility, it’s the physical and mental costs that I anticipated even less when we began our treatments five years ago!

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Our Infertility Journey: Part Eight

Our Infertility Journey: Part Eight

Hello, and Happy New Year, friends! I hope it’s not too late to say Happy New Year - truthfully, I always wonder what the appropriate cut off is at the start of a new year for using that greeting…

Anyway, it’s a new year, there are new things happening in our infertility journey, and I’m ready to share an update!

If you follow me on Instagram, you know by now that at the end of the summer (after my last update post), we completed an ERA test and had our first frozen embryo transfer (FET)!

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Infertility & Grief During the Holidays

Infertility & Grief During the Holidays

Last year, I shared with you my tips for how to survive the holidays when navigating infertility. (You can read those tips here.) I recently re-read that post and remembered how, deep down, I still felt hopeful back then about what was ahead of us in our infertility journey. Even through the pain of another holiday season passing without a pregnancy or a baby. But I’ll be honest friends - as we approach our fifth holiday season still navigating infertility after the loss of our pregnancy in October, that hope feels very hard to find right now.

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December 2020 Goals

December 2020 Goals

Well friends, here we are in the final month of the year. It’s a bit hard to believe given how long the weeks and months of this year have felt! There is something a bit bittersweet I’m feeling about 2020 coming to an end. While it’s been what feels like a huge series of unfortunate events, there is something sad about the passing of time that I feel as I’m getting older. How are you feeling in this final month of 2020? Are you ok?

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October & November 2020 Goals

October & November 2020 Goals

October has always been my favorite month of the year. The weather is often picture perfect, the colors are so beautiful, and apple cider is every where to be found. It’s the month we got married five years ago, and while it now also has some sadness associated with it after our second miscarriage at the very beginning of this month, there is just too much to love about October and the fall.

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September 2020 Goals

September 2020 Goals

We’re midway through September, but it’s not too late to share this month’s goals! Especially because I’ve already been making some progress on some of them! :)

I also need to take a minute and share with you all how excited I am that fall is so. close. The temperatures have started to cool off and even though we’ll probably have another week or so of hot days before it’s really here, fall is on its way. I’ve already worn turtlenecks this week. Turtlenecks!

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August 2020 Goals

August 2020 Goals

You know what has been annoying me a little bit recently? (I know… there are lots of things about 2020 that are annoying…) My 2020 monthly calendar is travel themed, and it’s getting a bit old each month to pull out another pretty image of somewhere I’d love to travel to in the middle of a pandemic where traveling isn’t possible! I guess I know what theme I’m not picking for my 2021 calendar…

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Home DIY: Installing a stair runner

Home DIY: Installing a stair runner

Over the weekend we completed our latest home DIY project - installing a runner on our staircase! After we had our hardwood floors refinished in April, we realized how much our dog Sydney relied on the old carpeting to help her get up and down the stairs more easily. And at almost 13 years old with arthritis in most of her joints now, she certainly needs that help!

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